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The Association Between Adult Separation Anxiety and Sexual Pain

Vaginismus is a sexual pain disorder characterized by involuntary vaginal spasms that can make vaginal penetration difficult and painful. Although it was defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 4th edition (DSM-IV) as a distinct condition, the 5th edition (DSM-5) combines vaginismus and dyspareunia (painful intercourse) into one condition known as genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder (GPPPD).

Sometimes, women who experience vaginismus begin to feel anxious about engaging in sexual activity because they do not want to repeat previous painful experiences. One study showed that fear of pain was the main reason women with vaginismus gave for avoiding sexual intercourse. Perhaps it is not surprising, then, that vaginismus has been shown to have a strong association with anxiety and depression, occurring at the same time as one of these mental health conditions in 79.86% of cases.

Because vaginismus is the most commonly reported sexual dysfunction in sexual dysfunction outpatient clinics in Turkey, a team of researchers sought to delve deeper into its associations with anxiety for women in this country. Specifically, they sought to determine if there is an association between vaginismus and adult separation anxiety disorder (ASAD).

To do so, they compared the scores of three questionnaires for two groups of women: 60 women with vaginismus who had visited a sexual dysfunction outpatient clinic in Turkey between April 1, 2019, and September 1, 2019, and 60 healthy women who had visited the gynecology outpatient clinic in the same hospital. To be included in the study, the women had to be between the ages of 18-45 and had to have been married for at least six months. For the women in the vaginismus group, the mean age was 26.2 years, and for the women in the control group, it was 27.4 years. The three questionnaires were the Relationships Scales Questionnaire (RSQ), the Female Sexual Function Index (FSFI), and the Adult Separation Anxiety Questionnaire (ASA-27). Below is a brief description of each questionnaire.

Relationships Scales Questionnaire

The RSQ measures attachment style (the way in which a person relates to other people) through 17 items in which participants are asked to assess themselves on a scale of 1 to 7 (with 1 being “does not describe me at all” and 7 being “completely describes me”). Through this questionnaire, respondents are sorted into one of four attachment styles: secure, fearful avoidance, preoccupied, and dismissive avoidance.

Female Sexual Function Index

Female sexual function is assessed through the FSFI with 19 questions that span six domains: desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasm, satisfaction, and pain. Generally, a total score of 26.55 or below is used as the cutoff for female sexual dysfunction.

Adult Separation Anxiety Questionnaire

The ASA-27 has 27 items aimed at assessing the symptoms and severity of adult separation anxiety. For each item, participants are asked to rank themselves on a scale of 0 to 3 (with 0 being “I never felt” and 3 being “I felt it very often”). Individuals with ASA-27 scores of 25 or higher meet the higher SAD diagnostic criteria.


After comparing the scores of the women from the vaginismus group and the control group for the three questionnaires, the researchers found the following:

These findings suggest that there may be an association between vaginismus and adult separation anxiety. Individuals who are struggling with sexual pain may benefit not only from taking steps to address the physical pain, but also from working with their partner and/or a therapist to address anxiety and work toward a more secure attachment style.


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